Monday, August 30, 2010

Guys pls stop being sick

Dedicated to the gal, my sweet little friend.

Her unspoken words, which she would want to yell at me.




I have seen guys hanging around like a pair of twins, like they were inseparable in any act they do. I have always admired the light hearted friendliness of guys. I have seen guys who befriend guys of their sort. I have seen them make friends with whom they will mutually benefit, whom they consider will help them make their lives better. But why does one complain when a gal make friends with guys whom she consider are worthwhile.

Yes I did say that I am not bored of his dull monotone. Why has it to be the other way than it just because I didn't want to hurt this nice guy who would want to talk his mind out to someone. Isn't this compassion second nature to women. Well, is there a compulsion that I should like to marry a guy just because I consider him nice in a way.

Of course it was me who said I enjoy his company, but does it mean that his' is the only company that I enjoy or does it imply that I would want to enjoy it forever and ever. To hell with all the stupid philosophical forwards stating that you choose someone whom you would like talking, but is life just about talking.

I have heard guys fret about gals being guarded in their manners. It's just because you morons are so sick that we don't want to contaminate you more than you already are.

I have heard statements like,“What does she think of herself, Ms.Universe?”
But why don't you guys realize that it doesn't take a Ms.Universe to make you sick. Even a gal who is worse than average looking can set your ass on fire, and make you poets.

I did copy the music collection he had given me and promised him to give my ear to it though it was completely out of my taste. Why doesn't it occur to him that it was just because of his badgering trying to impose his tastes on me? Why does he have to take it like I would die to know what his tastes are and make them mine?

Reading his post on why he wants to be single, I asked to stop his non-sense and try loving someone. Does that mean that someone should be me??

Certainly I did say that I was impressed, but why should he take it as, “Oh sweetheart why don't you understand? Why don't you hear the voices of my heart? Why don't you say that you feel the way I feel about you? Don't you know that I long every moment to hear you say that you love me?”

Have we ever complained about your masculine ego. Have we ever fretted about the way you consider yourselves as heroes. Have you every considered yourself lesser men, or tried to be modest. Ginny and Bella fell for Harry and Edward but should that mean any gal would fall for them. Even if we agree that you are a super hero does that necessarily warrant our love for you.

I do agree with the way Ginny felt for Harry and Bella for Edward. I do acquiesce with the fact that how hard it was for them to express their love to their guy. But for that reason why should one act like 19th century gentlemen looking for hints in every naïve act or to find hidden meaning in our trites.

Why don't you let us be just friends? Why should a gal always be either a blood relative or a rakhi sister? Can't she be your good friend but nothing else?

Guys it's my humble request, please get over your sickness. For the greater good. The society is no longer the prejudice of men. In this modern society you have to deal with people of both the sexes and even the intermediaries. I beseech you on behalf of the global women community to be broad minded and be prepared to deal with men and women alike. We don't want your chivalry nor your love proposals. Just treat us as any other friend of yours. Please let us have the luxury of befriending any human regardless of their sex.


This post has no bearing to any incident that happened or will happen in my life :p I am reading Atlas Shrugged and couldn't stand resisting the temptation to write something philosophical ;)

19 comments:

  1. Here here, good post to all the guys out there! I completely agree.

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  2. Dude, good and thought provoking post. Its quite a deviation from your usual misogynist articles. I appreciate that but still Indian society is unique society in dispelling your comments. You can very well witness that in everyday lives there. We are still under developed mainly because we haven't integrated or unleashed the creativity of female work force in India.

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  3. @Sati

    God is that a compliment or a jibe. Misogynistic articles!!!! Well there might hav been one or two trites just for fun.

    Anyway thanks for the complimenting part.

    Yes we need to break the block of male and female workforce. Colleagues and class mates are to be treated the same regardless of their sex.

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  4. Good post...but does is it actually applied or is it all NATO???

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  5. @PG akka

    The true intention behind this post is
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    to attract a few female readers ;)

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  6. Sabha.... idhu ulaga magha nadipuda sami!!

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  7. @Ancient

    Ean manasu kozantha mathiiri... look i hav confessed it myself that it was all sham :p

    But the wistful thing is that the target audience are too conceited to write their compliments here in public as it's their typical nature.
    @Sat
    U can call the last part of the above comment as misogynistic LOL

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  8. so its proved that its NATO...:P

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  9. @PG ka

    Yes of course. A guy who wouldn be love sick is sick of something worse.

    BTW NATO na enna???

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  10. NATO means "No Action Talk Only"

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  11. @Sat
    tanq

    @PG ka
    It's not NATO but the action is not the action that u suppose it shld entail ;)

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  12. I am somehow reminded of that song "Sakkarai Nilave" in which he sings pretty ridiculously that "we both like the same things.. so why dont you like me?". My first reaction was WT*!

    I have many friends who are guys who have been exceptions to the general rule.. But to the majority out there.. Wake up!!

    Good post! :) Enjoyed reading it!

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  13. @Asha

    Tanqqqq..

    The post has attained salvation. Finally 1 gud soul amongst the conceited lot :)

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  14. how difficult it would be for you gals to let the guy know that u r not my love..? if he still pursues and u know that the friendship is ruined the friend is lost anyways... just because u r friendly to everyone does not mean that if the guy likes u he shouldnt express... u still have to choice not accepting it and move on...???

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  15. @ksri

    Satyama onnum puriyala :(

    nways thanks for the comment.

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  16. Waw kitty... lost for words..as a guy you had read a girl's mind very well. Definately you will win over many girl fans. :)..I liked your post very much.:):):).HATS OFF!!!

    "Why don't you let us be just friends? Why should a gal always be either a blood relative or a rakhi sister? Can't she be your good friend but nothing else?"...Excellent!!!

    But sadly,majority of society esp most indian men don't think that way. For them, female friends are like morai ponnus. Like morai ponnus(cousins who are possible to marry), they take the liberty to change friendship to sisterly affection,or to love at their whims and fancy.Thats why you see the identity of married women is stronger. SHe has to wear wedding ring, metti, pottu in parting.. All these exists to remind the male friend that she is already someone's wife.If not her male friends will have such wavering thoughts.But, still I heard many real life incidents of even married ladies treating males as friends,but were mistaken by the male friends that they are showing love interest. What a sad state. World has progressed a lot, but still seem to so medivel and old fashioned in this.

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  17. So you're the noble guy off of the conceited lot of men who have real testosterone... and you can read a girl's mind?

    Well, let's play devil's advocate for a sec... shall we ;)

    To whoever argues guys and girls can be only friends...

    For a guy and girls to be just friends,
    The guy must be gay, or does not find THE GIRL attractive.

    The sole reason why most guys want to bullshit about friendship is because... he can't tell the girl he doesn't want to put the friendship at risk by being physically intimate with her. Period !

    This post is all wrong because the truth is a male is supposed to be attracted to a female and not otherwise, most times than not !

    Ask any lion and seek it's reply to whether it wants to befriend the lioness or have a baby ;)

    You get the drift?

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